Ever wonder why she’ll stay on Facebook or play Candy Crush for hours, but has absolutely no energy for sex? One word answer … Dopamine. Dopamine is the chemical in our brain that rewards us with pleasure whenever we do something that involves novelty, variety, or something unexpected. Dopamine is at the heart of pretty […]
Top 10 Signs that Your Wife is Attracted
Reader question from a few days ago: Hi Rebecca, … Lots of advice on the website have the prerequisite that the woman should already be attracted. Can you please help and give clues on how would I know if my wife is attracted and how to judge the level of attractiveness (eg low, medium or […]
The 3 Times a Woman Initiates Like a Man
I get a lot of questions about why women don’t initiate more … like men do. Or initiate more like men. Well, the answer is simple … they aren’t men. And then I get angsty blog comments like this … She wanted sex tonight, asked me to come to bed naked after my shower, sent […]
Why She Wants Sex Less Than You
On a regular basis, I get angry comments and e-mails from guys who are infuriated that their wives don’t want sex as much as they do. Some typical comments: “The truth is “Sexual Love” is a joke and more to do with body chemistry then anything actually real. Wow… Awesome concept ! The woman has […]
Warm ‘er Up, Lube ‘er Up: Two Simple Things to Try This Weekend to Help Her Find Her O
Most men get a huge kick out of their wife’s orgasm, especially if they get to help along the way. In fact, studies show that guys say a woman’s orgasm is one of the “most sexually satisfying experiences men could have.” And I’m sure it comes as no surprise to hear that many men said it was […]
