Building Attraction with Your Wife
Wife 'too tired' for sex? She'd rather Facebook than make love? Fights about sex the new normal?
"When I started my coaching with Rebecca, my goal was to get my wife to have sex with me everyday.
Immediately in my coaching with Rebecca, I was able to see obvious flaws in my relationship with my wife that killed her attraction for me...
Within a month ... my wife was attracted again, simply by changing some of my habits and daily interactions." --T.L., Ohio
If you’re like many men, you are incredibly frustrated in your marriage. Sex is less frequent and less passionate than you’d like.
Every time you initiate, it’s a hit-or-miss prospect whether or not your wife will respond. Worse, on the nights she does respond, you can’t ever tell what you did differently to garner success.
You’ve basically thrown your hands up in mystification as to why it’s so hard to attract the woman you married. You wonder:
“If she loves me, why does she always turn me down?”
The fact is that your wife can love you very much, but still not be attracted to you. Attraction and love are two entirely different prospects.
What you might not know yet is that there are specific actions you can take that will trigger your wife’s hidden sexuality. It’s just a matter of understanding the truth about what engages her responsive desire, and then putting it into practice in your marriage.
You’ve been given a lot of misinformation over the years as to how a woman’s sexuality works. You’ve been told to bring her flowers, give her soft, sweet kisses and love notes, and cuddle her gently. There’s nothing wrong with all this, and it provides a lot of relationship comfort in your marriage.
The only problem? It doesn’t work to build sexual attraction.
You know it doesn’t work because you’ve tried that route for years and it’s a dead end. In fact, the more supplicating you’ve been, the less sex you’ve had.
The good news is that it's completely possible to turn all that around. You just need to understand how female attraction really works.
It’s time to switch to a more effective strategy. That’s what Attraction coaching is all about. Other men have discovered the secret to triggering their wife's hidden sexuality. You can too.
Here are some things you can do right now.
- Stop pressuring her for sex. It's not working, and is actually making her more resistant.
- No more getting angry in front of her. You may get more sex temporarily, but it makes the situation worse in the long run.
- Stop believing your wife is just not a sexual person. It's probably not the case, and it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
- Understand that there's a more effective way to get the healthy sex life you want. You have to understand the root of the problem before you can fix it.
- Stop wasting your life in a sexless marriage and schedule a coaching call today. Life is too precious to waste time waiting for your sex life to get better. It's time to take action.
Things We’ll Cover
- What really drives female sexuality
- Medical and hormonal problems that may be blocking her sexual response
- Responsive desire and how to trigger it
- Why she never initiates
- Why doing the dishes doesn’t get you more sex
- How to keep your kids from blocking your sex life
- How to get more respect from your wife
- Why she runs so hot and cold
- How to discern whether she’s red, yellow, or green for sex, and what to do in each scenario
- What her favorite sexual flavor is
- What brand of attractiveness she responds to
- How to bring out your wife's bad girl